trunk/b7c1d9a9ec08aeb45c7fac06e3f97a3faf974e0e: Strengthen headeronly linter (#194486)

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Previously, we only triggered this lint with header_only_apis.txt was modified. That was okay, but this means that if people remove tests or remove the API itself we'd still be happily telling everyone that the APIs exist + are headeronly. Scary! This PR runs the lint now when any aoti_abi_check test file is modified or torch/headeronly file in addition to header_only_apis.txt. The lint was also not complete in that…

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